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Why You Should Never Break A Promise You Did with Your Children,Anytime

IMPORTANCE OF OUR PROMISES

Promise is the  first step to bind our souls together. If it kept unbroken ,it makes the bond a special one.without right promises relationship between two or more persons is very hard to form. It is also important to grow your children into a perfect good hearted human being. Read this article to know about Why you should never break a promise you did with your children ,anytime.
HOW CHILDREN’S ARE AND THERE NATURE 

Children’s are like  water  without any define shape. But as they starts growing up, the water starts losing its nature of liquidity and at later stages it forms into a ice like structure. After its transformation any serious  change is  a rare example  or very close to impossible. So, if you want to make your children an  ideal person  for your  society or nation, then you should take care of them from very initial stage.so,try to shape that water like structure of your children  with  a precise skilled hand.

Why you should not break your promises to your children

Why you should  never Break a promise you did with your children anytime….. 


The result of  breaking promises with children  is worse. It indicates that-from very beginning you are teaching your children ..how to break promises? also teaching them directly or  indirectly that – breaking a promise is not a serious issue and there is nothing to be ashamed off and there is nothing serious to give importance to your spoken words. Thus you directing them towards a darkish future. May be unknowingly. But mistake is mistake and it also have  a bad reasult. So you should follow those usefull  tips  given in this article to make your children a better one. 

So from first day you teaching your children how to walk on a wrong road  So imagine ,ultimately what will be the result after ten or twenty years.
If we consider a case where a children learning from their elders that – breaking a promise is not a serious issue and we can make  any promises without any reason as there is no importance of it!

  • As the children grows up,he/she also starts making promises like everyone does. As they already got lessons about how to break promises? From there elders they also joins in the circle of promise breakers and starts breaking promises with others.In other words – simply lies before peoples on the name of promises as they already fixed that they  will break the promise.
  • On the other side a man gives importance to his promises and try to keep those up to his optimum level.As he learned moral values and value of your spoken words .

I  guess anybody who cares at lest a little bit about children’s will choose the  second option.

So try to think about children’s, who learns more from us than they learn by themselves.

But why those mistakes we didn’t noticed still!!  Usually don’t think about those mistakes  until it becomes a very serious issue.
So what is the reason, and what makes us blind when time comes for those broken promises?

Answer is-  it is normal for us. We also break promises and childrens learned from us. So how can we find those mistakes in others what we are doing everyday? 
Its time to think. What you want , and how you want to see your children after ten or twenty years?

So you want to get rid of this problem to make your children’s life a better one ,i guess.

To make your children a good human by hart , you should change some wrong lifestyle practice,  and follow these simple solutions to make your childrens life ,a better one.



  1. Don’t ignore moral teachings  by stating it as a old fashioned topic.
  2. Tell your children those stories only, that have something to relate with our  real life and have a good  thought.
  3. Avoid stories of super heroes and cartoon programmes as much as you can . It makes your children to dive into a imaginary fantasy world which is very different from our real  life. It also confuses childrens to chose what is real? And what is unreal?
  4. Don’t lie in front of your children
  5. Dont make jokes on someone’s bad times,even it is about your worst enemy.
  6. Dont discuss about other people and stop the conversation of what they shoud do?…..what they done ? etc.
  7. Don’t criticise some one else.
  8. Dont avoid your children’s  wish to be with you, even if it is about your best tv serial or cricket  match. Don’t let the child think he/she is less  important than the match or any other program.
  9. Last and serious point..don’t break those promises what you did  with your childrens. 

    So it looks so simple but this matter is complex and can affect your children. So if you want to make your children a virtuous person then always flow the rules from very begging.

    I think thats it! As it is a simple but complex topic ,I feel like…. im missing something ,but cant able to figure it out!   If you have anything to add or if you have  any question please leave it in the comments.
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